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Lenore Skenazy

Episode 27, America's Worst Mom

When newspaper columnist Lenore Skenazy allowed her nine-year-old son to ride public transportation by himself and shared his triumphant journey in the New York Sun, she was labeled "America’s Worst Mom." That misnomer turned into a national movement.

A Sonic Journey

by Nelda Sue Yaw with Steve Roach | Nelda Live!

Lenore Skenazy’s son had been riding the Manhattan subways his entire life and wanted to make a solo trip. With subway fare, map in hand, and quarters should he need to call for help, he successfully navigated his way home from Bloomingdale’s Department store. He was elated, but the firestorm attacking this parenting decision was a surprise. Skenazy was thrust into the national spotlight with appearances on the Today Show, MSN, NBC, Fox News, and NPR. Says Skenazy, “I was disheartened, to say the least, and shocked by all the things that were being said about me.” In response to the public outcry, Lenore Skenazy started a blog called Free-Range Kids supporting the concept that children are smarter and safer than our society gives them credit for, and the popular blog morphed into the nonprofit Let Grow, which counters the culture of overprotection.

When kids think that their parents don’t trust them to do anything on their own, it’s an umbilical cord that hasn’t gotten cut. It’s making kids anxious, depressed, and parents nervous.

According to Lenore Skenazy, Let Grow’s mission is to “future-proof” children by producing media content that relates to the positive effects of giving kids more independence and responsibility. The organization also provides curriculum to bring diverse child development viewpoints into schools. They hope to show principals, teachers, and school counselors that treating children as if they’re emotionally fragile can have negative impacts. Let Grow is also sponsoring research into the short- and long-term effects of overprotection, as well as the positive effects of free play, free time, and “beneficial risk.” The goal is to scientifically determine how much physical and emotional protection is truly necessary and how much is counterproductive. Another important initiative is safeguarding parents who choose to nurture independence in their children without fear of repercussions. They are advocating and pushing states to decriminalize free unsupervised time with “Free-Range Parenting” laws.

Lenore Skenazy’s efforts have gained momentum and will soon be chronicled in a feature-length documentary film Chasing Childhood.

Says Skenazy, “Without any kind of independence, self-regulation doesn’t get a chance to kick in, curiosity doesn’t get a chance to kick in, or the development of resilience. We can’t take important building blocks of character and resilience out of their lives. We are dedicated to giving independence back to kids and making it normal again.”

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What you’ll learn

  • How her son’s solo subway ride created a firestorm of debate (0:41)
  • The negative impacts of “helicopter parenting” (4:47)
  • How some overprotective laws are punishing parents (9:52)
  • What is Free-Range Parenting (21:31)
  • How independence fosters self-reliance (23:20)

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